You deserve better sex and closer connection.
Get explicit, hands-on coaching like you’ve never seen before.
What People Are Saying
“Wonderful experience! They really took the time to understand my history with my trauma and past experiences...
Book a session with James. You won’t regret it.”
— Jesus Monroy
“James is incredibly talented, thoughtful and precise at helping you establish your goals and then helping you achieve them.
I could not recommend him enough!”
— Mac Cherny
“James helped me build community, have more meaningful relationships with others, and feel better connected to my body and mind.
I highly recommend.”
— John Rooney
“An integral part of my healthcare and wellness. A caring and meaningful provider.””
— Rafael Cortes
Choose your pathway.
I want to:
Discover new ways to pleasure my body
Improve my sexual confidence and body image
Connect with
my partner(s)
more deeply
Reclaim my body after sexual assault
or browse our full program list below:
Your journey will be led by world-class life coach James Laidler and his team of experts
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Butt Plug Meditation
Relax your hole and your mind with our twist on classic meditative techniques incorporating self-pleasure, mindfulness, and eroticism.
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Mix Up Your Masturbation
You’ve been jerking off the same way since you were a teenager. Discover new ways to pleasure your cock and others too!
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Sex and Intimacy Surrogacy
Also called Surrogate Partner Therapy, this form of experiential intimacy coaching will give you the confidence and skills to enjoy your sensual and romantic encounters.
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Deeper Connections for Partners and Lovers
We spend more time discussing what to watch on Netflix than our sex and intimacy needs! It’s time to fix that, with hands-on coaching for couples and polycules.
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Better Butt Stuff
New to bottoming or want to improve your skills? Discover our 8-part course on how to give your ass the pleasure it deserves!
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Explore Your Erotic Self
Not sure what you’re into? Get expert guidance to uncover your inner kinks and experiment with your enjoyment.
Be warned: it’ll push your boundaries!
What People Are Saying
“I finally found a way to enjoy both bottoming and topping. I learned awesome ways to give myself and my partner pleasure.”
— Jacob, Better Butt Stuff
“Playing with my cock along with a group of men was so hot. But it really helped me with body confidence and shame about sex.”
— Jackson, Mixing Up Your Masturbation
“I had an amazing experience. I feel the class enhanced my journey of self exploration.
Sexy, educational, and fun.”
— Tim, Mixing Up Your Masturbation
“They created an environment that really supported vulnerability and enabled me to unpack complex feelings from my past.”
— Jose, private sex and intimacy coaching
Not sure which program is right for you?
Schedule a time to chat to us to discuss your needs and how we could work together:
I want to discover new ways to pleasure my body!
Thought about Surrogate Partner Therapy?
It’s a form of experiential sex and intimacy coaching that will give you the confidence and skills to enjoy your sensual and romantic encounters.
How about jerking off in new ways?
Shake up your masturbation habits and learn how to adapt them to pleasure other guys.
New to bottoming or want to improve your skills?
We’ve got a unique 8-part course on how to give your ass the pleasure it deserves.!
What about exploring new kinks?
Not sure what you’re into? Get expert guidance to uncover your inner kinks and experiment with your enjoyment.
Be warned: it’ll push your boundaries!
Pleasure your hole while meditating?
That’s right. Butt plug meditation. It’s a great way to relax into bottoming if anal sex is typically painful.
I want to improve my sexual confidence and body image!
Thought about Surrogate Partner Therapy?
It’s a form of experiential sex and intimacy coaching that will give you the confidence and skills to enjoy your sensual and romantic encounters.
What about exploring new kinks?
Not sure what you’re into? Get expert guidance to uncover your inner kinks and experiment with your enjoyment.
Be warned: it’ll push your boundaries!
New to bottoming or want to improve your skills?
We’ve got a unique 8-part course on how to give your ass the pleasure it deserves.!
How about jerking off in new ways?
Shake up your masturbation habits and learn how to adapt them to pleasure other guys.
I want to connect with my partner(s) more deeply!
How about a unique form of couples’ counselling?
We spend more time discussing what to watch on Netflix than our sex and intimacy needs! It’s time to fix that, with private, hands-on coaching to improve your relationships.
Are you a top who wants to bottom? Or maybe a good bottom who wants to be a GREAT bottom?
We’ve got a unique 8-part course on how to give your ass the pleasure it deserves.!
How about jerking off in new ways?
Shake up your masturbation habits and learn how to adapt them to pleasure your partner(s).
Thought about Surrogate Partner Therapy?
It’s a form of experiential sex and intimacy coaching that will give you the confidence and skills to enjoy your sensual and romantic encounters.
What about exploring new kinks?
Relationships get stale. Introducing new forms of sex can really spice things up. But where do you begin? We give you expert guidance to uncover your inner kinks and experiment with your enjoyment.
Be warned: it’ll push your boundaries!
I want to reclaim my body after sexual assault!
Thought about Surrogate Partner Therapy?
It’s a form of experiential sex and intimacy coaching that will give you the confidence and skills to enjoy your sensual and romantic encounters.
How about jerking off in new ways?
Shake up your masturbation habits and learn how to adapt them to pleasure other guys. This is environment has tightly controlled consent limits and nothing goes in anyone, not even kissing is allowed.
What about exploring new kinks?
Unconventional sex can be a great way of creating a safer space and experimenting with pleasure outside of trauma triggers.
Pleasure your hole while meditating?
That’s right. Butt plug meditation. It’s a great way to relax into bottoming again if you’ve experienced past trauma and want to regain control.